UnEqually Yoke In Relationships

What does the title mean? There is a lot of confusion regarding this subject, but I am here today to put in my 2 cents. There are six areas in your life that you must have a balance. Everyone is stronger in one area or another. The term has nothing to do with Religion in this setting. The six areas of your life are 1. Financial and Career 2. Health and Physical 3. Educational and Personal Self improvement 4. Home and Family 5. Spiritual 6. Friends and Social. Every one is lacking in one or more of these areas. When you are not equal in the areas of your life, that is the seed of a bad relationship. The paradox is, we are normally attracted to someone that has it together in an area where we are weak. Humans admire and seek that in another person that our perception says, they can help me get to where they are. (More tomorrow, this will be the subject for the week, comments are welcomed).

Needy VS I need you to do this

We spoke a few days ago about a man needs to be needed. However men do not want, like or are attracted to emotionally needy women. What constitutes a needy woman, calling more than 2 times a day, jealously, spying, checking his phone, etc. among other things. Another thing that pisses me off, (and most men) is when a woman tells me, you know what you did, you know why I am upset. Let's clarify this, when a man says he does not know why you are upset, he means it. IF YOU WANT A MAN TO KNOW WHAT IS WRONG, TELL HIM, IF YOU WANT SOMETHING ASK HIM DIRECTLY. Most men do not respond to hints. To elaborate on the last post about complaining (venting) when you complain to a man, he thinks you want him to fix it, thats what we do, then you get upset that he wants to fix it when all you want him to do is listen, Women listen, Men fix things. Please sign up for the weekly news letter, I am giving a tremendous gift, a gift that has the potential to change every aspect of your life, I sold this book a while ago for $99.00, yours free. If you did not sign up, close this and come back in, the pop down will appear allowing you to sign up. Comments are welcome.

What Men Dislike The Most About Women

This is one thing that turns all men off, the only reason a man will, listen to this is he wants sex from you, and if you question him, he was not really listening. Men hate complaining, in all of it's forms. Women call it venting, men call it complaining. If you must complain (vent) call one of your girlfriends or your male girlfriend.

Good Man or a Project

After two months, due to popular demand I am bringing back relationship information, I thought no one was reading but due to multiple demands I will start posting again.

What do you Women really want, do you want a good man, or do you want a project? I am completely convinced women want a Project. Every woman that does not have a man, wants a man she can mold and make the way she wants. Those of you that have a good man, are not happy and want something different. Human nature is we want what we don't have. You say you are a great catch, got it going on, pretty, sexy, fine, intelligent, independent. You want a man that is this, has that, looks like this! The question I have is "what would he want with you"? Biggest Secret I have ever written. ARE YOU READY. A man is not that attracted to an independent woman, a man needs to be needed. Not necessarily financially but he needs to know you need him. Test this if you will. If you can do everything yourself then all you need is maybe sex, and that is what you will get. You will complain, all he wants is sex, that is the only option you are giving him. Try this, baby something is wrong with my car, can you check it, the door won't close, or anything else, holla, let me know how this works.